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Wedding Guest List Calculator

Estimate how many invited guests will actually attend, the venue capacity you need and hotel rooms for outstation family.

List how many people each side plans to invite in every group. Attendance rates are pre-filled with typical figures — change them to suit your families.

GroupBride's sideGroom's sideLikely to attend
Immediate & close family
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Extended relatives
%
Family friends
%
Your friends
%
Colleagues
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Neighbours & community
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%
%

Why attendance matters

Not everyone invited can come. Planning for the realistic number — rather than the invite count — keeps your venue, catering and budget right-sized.

Tips

  • Close family almost always attends; colleagues and community much less so.
  • Destination and weekday weddings see lower attendance.
  • Keep a 10% seating margin over expected attendance.

Frequently asked questions

What percentage of wedding guests attend?

It varies by relationship and distance. Close family often attends at 90%+, while colleagues and the wider community may attend at 50–60%. The calculator lets you set your own rates.

How many hotel rooms do I need?

Divide the number of outstation guests expected to attend by the number of guests per room — typically 2 to 3 for families.

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